Select the type of service you desire.
Decide on your burial location.
If you opt for a viewing, specify clothing preferences.
Explore venue options for the service (funeral home, place of worship, sentimental location, graveside, etc.).
Express your preferences for floral arrangements.
If you prefer charitable donations instead of flowers, indicate the organization(s).
Identify individuals who will participate in your service, such as pallbearers, an officiant, or musicians.
Choose the songs or musical performances you would like at your service, and consider additional elements like special readings or scripture.
Compose an obituary or jot down the information you wish to include in it.

Mary Thomas Kaplan