Shirley Marie Futty

Shirley Marie Futty

July 17, 1939 - February 04, 2020

Obituary

Shirley Marie Futty of Aberdeen died Tuesday, February 4 at Harford Memorial Hospital. She was 80. Born in Havre de Grace, MD she was the daughter of the late Harry G. & Anna Estella (Cullum) Neidlein and wife of the late Charles E. Futty, Jr. who died in 1997. A homemaker, Shirley was a member of Cranberry United Methodist Church in Perryman, MD for over 55 years. She served as a Sunday School teacher, Council chair, secretary of the Board of Trustees, and church historian. Shirley was a member of the choir for many years and was the driving force behind many craft sales over the years. She was a member of the United Methodist Women and participated in many bake sales and dinners. She helped publish a recipe book that was titled “136 Years Old and Still Cooking". In 1996 Shirley was one of the four original team leaders for Martha's Meals. For the past 20 years and counting, Cranberry UMC is still involved with other local area churches serving a free meal to those that are less fortunate. In 1972 there was a two-room schoolhouse that stood vacant for many years next to Cranberry UMC. Shirley and her very good friend and neighbor, Betty Nickle saw an opportunity to help the teenage youth in their community. With the help of Parks and Recreation they opened and operated Perryman's only teen center for approximately 10 years. She is survived by her sons, C. Keith Futty and wife Sarah of Havre de Grace and Jeffery S. Futty and wife Patricia of Concord, VA; grandchildren, Rachael Mays and her husband Bryan and Michael Futty and his wife Kirstin; great grandchildren, Justice and Kiley and Khloe Marie, who is to be born soon and her siblings, Harry Neidlein, Jr. of Perryman, Ruth Piper of Havre de Grace and Dorothy Gross of Aberdeen. In addition to her parents and husband she was predeceased by her grandson, Jason Futty and her brothers, Franklin, Kenneth and Fleet Bowman. A visitation will be held on Friday, February 7 from 2-4pm and 6-8pm at the Tarring-Cargo Funeral Home where a funeral service will be held on Saturday, February 8 at 10:00am. Interment will be in Harford Memorial Gardens. In lieu of flowers contributions in her memory may be made to Cranberry United Methodist Church, PO Box 78, Perryman, MD 21130.

Events

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Visitation
Fri Feb 7, 2020 @ 2:00 PM - 4:00 PM EDT
Tarring-Cargo Funeral Home • 333 S Parke St., Aberdeen, MD 21001
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Visitation
Fri Feb 7, 2020 @ 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM EDT
Tarring-Cargo Funeral Home • 333 S Parke St., Aberdeen, MD 21001
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Service
Sat Feb 8, 2020 @ 10:00 AM EDT
Tarring-Cargo Funeral Home • 333 S Parke St., Aberdeen, MD 21001
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Rachael
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I spent many summers in Maryland with Mom-mom and Pop-pop. Mom-mom taught me how to sew, bake, many different crafts and how to have patience as we waited for Pop to finish his tea before playing board games! I'm so grateful that our daughter got to share in the Maryland memories and build a relationship with Mom-mom. There are so many things we will cherish and she will be missed by our family. And Mom-mom, I'll never stop trying to perfect your sweet tea! We love you, The Mays' family (Rachael, Bryan and Kiley)
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Jeanna
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Aunt Shirley, When mom passed that was a devastating time for me. I am thankful that I could turn to you for advice, guidance and at times your conversations put me back where I needed to be to have my patience back. I will always cherish the nights of working on the computer and the nights of just conversations. You were a big inspiration to me and for that I am thankful for. I will miss you very much. Love Jeanna
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Cindy Chance & Kathy Cryser
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Our deepest sympathies to all of the family. Ms. Shirley we will miss hearing you sing in the church choir.
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Lois Cullum
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Thank you for making me feel welcome that first day I walked into church and every Sunday thereafter 💖
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Lisa DeBoard
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Our sincere condolences to the loved ones Shirley left behind. We first met Shirley when our family first walked into the doors of Cranberry UMC. She welcomed us with a warm greeting and smile. I have many fond memories of Shirley but the ones I hold close , are her holding my children after each of their baptisms. Sweetly holding them, softly singing as she walked them around the church introducing them to their church family . Thank you for your love, mentoring, leadership and service. You will be missed by many , but this isn’t good bye it’s a see you later. Darrick, Lisa , Darrick Jr and Emmily DeBoard

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